Why we’re different

Identity House provides a unique service as a peer counseling center for the New York City metropolitan area’s LGBTQ+ community. We offer a walk-in counseling and referral center, as well as weekly groups where people can talk about issues related to sexual and gender identity. Unlike formal therapy, peer counseling is based on the belief that with proper guidance and support, people are capable of working through many of their own problems.

Our peer counselors use active listening skills to help clients clarify their thoughts and feelings and to explore solutions. We have the opportunity to share as equals and draw on personal experience to let clients know we’ve been there, too. And if just talking isn’t enough, we also make referrals when appropriate to short-term counseling, peer-run support groups, or licensed therapists.

Health is shaped by a host of social, economic, and structural factors. Research suggests that LGBTQ+ individuals seek mental health treatment at a higher rate than their non-LGBTQ+ counterparts. Those in the LGBTQ+ community are also much more likely to experience anxiety, depression, substance abuse, self-harm, or suicidal thoughts.

Historically, many LGBTQ+ people who sought mental health services found counselors and therapists were uneducated about issues around sexuality, gender, and identity. Unfortunately, this often resulted in LGBTQ+ clients ending their treatment prematurely or never actually seeking treatment and support. In some cases, the client would end up being the one to educate the therapist about the struggles unique to their population.